Jacey Hilburn

Jacey Hilburn

Fellow

Current Country

United States 🇺🇸

Current City

Clinton

What have you been going through and experiencing?

How does screen time affect my personality and happiness?

January 31, 2026

Intuition

Cultivating inner knowing

A question currently animating me about the inner life/spirit is:

How does screen time affect my personality and happiness?

January 31, 2026

A question currently animating me about the outer world/universe/multiverse is:

How can I engage with and learn from indigenous communities outside of my own?

January 31, 2026

The practices I’m finding most helpful at the moment are:

Journaling,Creating Music/Art,Rest

January 31, 2026

A moment I noticed my inner light kindled this month was:

Exploring UNC Chapel Hill with my friends!

January 31, 2026

A moment I noticed my inner light dwindled this month was:

I’ve had a mostly stable month where my inner light never fully dwindled but stayed relatively the same and only changed in moments of happiness!

January 31, 2026

Courage

Aligning action

Assumptions I'm examining right now are:

Other

January 31, 2026

I originally assumed:

Purpose is found through the things you do.

January 31, 2026

These assumptions are changing:

Purpose is not centered around what you do and not do, but what you feel inwardly and how you choose to bring that forward.

January 31, 2026

A moment I stepped out of my comfort zone this month was:

Driving in the snow! I absolutely hate driving, even more so during bad weather, but I have it a shot and it turned out really well. I was super proud of myself :)

January 31, 2026

Compassion

Engaged Empathy

Something that is helping me build trusting relationships here is:

January 31, 2026

Digital Detox Retreat

Number of days I've gone without technology

Number of days I've gone without technology

7

Being intentionally away from technology and distractions has taught me:

Being online takes away my creativity, my sense of awareness, and ability to be present. I found that my sleep, social battery, and drive to create all improved when I stepped away from technology and distractions. I was able to truly listen into myself and honor what felt true.

December 30, 2025

Gratitude

Peers I'm grateful for:

Meirav Roisman

Thanks for helping plan/being down for second semester together. Yay, South America!!!

December 1, 2025

Zawadi Rangala

Thank you for being brave and sharing your creativity with the flight school community. Your voice has helped me touch back in and embrace my creativity that I thought was gone!

October 30, 2025

Lydia Belz

Thank you for taking part of the small group sessions and helping me feel tethered to The Flight School community as I am traveling. Our in-depth conversations have helped give me a place to reflect on my past and inner questionings and give me something to look forward to!

October 1, 2025

Douglas Teixeira de Queiroz Santos

Thank you so much for supporting me and being an amazing outlet to talk travel plans, balancing Morehead-Cain requirements with those of the Flight School, and being an overall amazing human!

September 1, 2025

Tristan Herrero Picard

Thank you for asking such interesting and philosophical questions in our group meetings! They always make our sessions more enjoyable and insightful.

August 1, 2025

Peers who have expressed gratitude for me:

Meirav Roisman

I know this plan has been changing a lot, and I’m sorry I haven’t been the most responsive or consistent planning partner. You’ve been super easy to plan with and I feel like you catch a lot of the holes in my plan and help me be more prepared. XOXO

January 29, 2026

Nana Adwoa Agyemang

I LOVED talking with you this month and learning how aligned our goals and values are :)) I look forward to talking with you more <3

January 29, 2026

Meirav Roisman

Girl I’m just so excited to travel with you! I can’t wait until we’re together and exploring and adventuring. I’m so happy we got connected and I think we’re going to have such a blast. I’m so grateful you were just down to go with the flow and I can’t wait to see where we go.

January 4, 2026

Meirav Roisman

Thank you for being such a great travel buddy! I'm so excited to meet up with you in person and explore South America together!

December 19, 2025

Douglas Teixeira de Queiroz Santos

Although we kept missing each other in our calls, our voice note updates taught me how beautiful it can be to connect with someone with intention and no burden. Thank you for being patient and open to exploring new ways of connecting overseas.

December 2, 2025

Anna Ufaeva

Although it might seem like a disaster at first, whatever happens is eventually for the better, and we'll find this out later. Thank you for reminding me of this!!

October 16, 2025

Magical Moments

Light-kindling moments

Light-kindling moments

Reconnection

Clinton

Jan 15, 2026

This is a picture of Derin, my friend, and I after we got dinner. Before this night, I had not seen or spoken to him for around 2 years. However, about a week beforehand, I ran into him at a car wash and we made plans to see one another. Talking with him and seeing how much he has grown was so beautiful and heartwarming. Everything, and yet nothing, was different about him. The young freshman, who I always used to joke and say was my son, is a senior now. He just got into his dream school, is making music, and experienced his first love. His humor is still the same, but there is more maturity in his words, more wisdom. Neither of us is the same, yet somehow we still fit, it’s magical.

Friend Reunion

Lumberton

Dec 30, 2025

This picture captures the day after my best friends and I had a Christmas celebration and reunion after not seeing one another for around four months. This night was full of laughter, side quests, shenanigans, love, and being present with one another - and also about 0-3 hours of sleep depending on the person :p. These girls always make my life magical by instilling love and understanding into our relationships, and I am forever grateful for the memories we make together!

Hobbit Hole

Matamata

Sep 28, 2025

Last weekend, I was able to visit the Hobbiton movie set in Matamata, New Zealand. As a huge Lord of the Rings and Hobbit fan, seeing this in person was a dream come true. Walking by a hobbit hole for the first time made me feel like I entered into one of my favorite novels, helping reignite the kid in me who loved reading, exploring, and dreaming of fantastical worlds. This sense of joy is what makes my trip to Hobbiton my magical moment of the month!

Kiwi Thanksgiving

Auckland

Nov 28, 2025

Final goodbyes with friends, host families, and the people who changed my life for the better. I have always spent Thanksgiving with the people I love, but this year the people may have looked different, but the sentiment was the same!

Redwoods at Night

Rotorua

Oct 25, 2025

Rotorua is a small town around three hours away from Auckland. It is know for its geothermal activity, natural beauty, and its Redwood trees. I had heard from many of my coworkers that the Redwood at night walk was one of the most beautiful things they had seen - they were not wrong. This picture captures the moment of me walking through the trees, almost 200 feet off the ground, and watching the light show brightening up the night sky. In this moment, I was in awe of nature's beauty and how it was combined with thoughtful art. I was grounded, fulfilled, and reminded of my humanity in a way that only nature and art can make you feel.